The Second Half
In the cobbled lanes of Málaga in Spain, shaded by orange trees and painted in sun-washed whites, lived Señor Manuel, a retired literature professor nearing his eighties. He had spent the first half of his life scaling the heights of academic prestige—lecturing, writing books, debating in university halls, and wearing stern glasses with an even sterner gaze.
To his neighbors, he was always “Don Manuel”—the serious man who walked precisely at 6 a.m. and 6 p.m., nodded curtly, and kept his books more company than people. Children didn’t dare kick their football near his fence.
But something changed after his wife passed away. Days grew long and heavy. One afternoon, as he sat on the garden bench staring at fallen orange blossoms, a ball bounced onto his porch. A small girl nervously approached, expecting the usual scolding. Instead, he smiled and said, “Shall I kick it back, or may I play too?”
The deeper wisdom often comes not in growing up, but in growing back—into wonder, play, and the joy of being fully alive.
The first half of life is learning to be an adult-the second half is learning to be a child. - Pablo Picasso